Thanks so much for the feedback everybody... the anemone seems to feel better and the wrasse is making regular appearances to let me know its still around!! i love this page and the folks on it, y'all are awesome for responding so quickly.. i was really panicked in the beginning! thanks again Shelli...

not real sure of the type, it's got purple tips, not bubble tip... but right after putting this post up i went to the tank and there it was!! haven't seen it in 24 hrs and it APPEARS!! and my anemone opened up too.. not much but enough for me to feed it.. dont really know what's going on but somethi...

HELP!!! yesterday, i bought a wrasse, put it in my tank.. left the house for a couple of hours.. when i came back i looked for it and couldn't find it anywhere... and since then my anemone has been balled up very tightly.. something its NEVER done to my knowledge.. i also changed the water yesterday...